四天三夜的返马之旅让我体会到了很多东西。生活再简单，只要找到乐趣，并积极对待事情，平民老百姓也能活得比自以为金钱就是一切，视富为福的富人更有福，更富裕。他们懂得珍惜生命给他们的一切，毫无怨言地乐在其中。即使只是个卖榴莲的老伯，跟老婆住在榴莲园附近，白天一个人载着整车的榴莲到外头去卖，晚上把开过没卖出去的榴莲带回家让老婆做成榴莲糕。老伯懂得苦中作乐，就算如此也跟老婆生活得很开心，很充实，平庸但不寂寞。

珍惜身边的一切，否则当你失去它们任何一样时，你的感受可能就如失去全世界，这“它们”包括身边所有人事物。倘若它们突然不在，或要离开时，你才领悟它们对你的重要性。所有动物，包括人类，都是这么愚蠢，不失不知足。

很高兴我妈终于度过难关。请了四天假回去陪她。我承认自己比较悲观，回到那里，发现我妈反而很乐观。的确，笑也是一天，哭也是一天，为什么不尝试笑着度过每一天呢？当你能在每个早上睁开眼睛开始新的一天时，比起一些人，你已经很幸运了。住院坐在病床上，我妈还是那么乐观，可爱。直到对面拖进来一位不断呻吟的印度婆，我妈顿时沉默寡言。。隔天，我，外婆，乾妈，阿姨，还有妈妈的男朋友天未亮就起床准备出发到医院去。妈妈八点半被要求换上手术穿的衣服。之后坐上轮椅被护士往手术室推去，我们其他人跟着，不断安抚她的心情。她侧着脸忍着泪。到了手术室外，她像迷失的小妹妹一样回头看着我们，被推进去。

紧张了数小时才得知好消息。护士让我们看这段日子一直在我妈身体里作祟的“始作俑者” - 子宫和卵巢。我妈清醒后被送回病房休息。她的眼睛稍微睁开，看着我们，却没力气说话，只听见小小声的“很痛～”，我妈从以前就是个很怕痛的女生，更何况此痛非表层之痛，而是深入骨子里的痛。幸好我妈很坚强。

回到病房后便昏昏入睡，靠着连接着脉搏的点滴补充水分。手术成功大家终于出去吃午餐。南宾园的果条仔超好吃！从我还没从妈肚子里出来时，我妈就已经在吃了。那里是我们的老家，味道还是没变，二十年咯～～

今早道别前去看我妈多一次。她的前同事对她很关心，我妈真有福气，哈哈。她的伤口也不如前一天痛，也不需靠点滴了，皆大欢喜！

这两个月让她好好休养，六月答应带她来新游玩！

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Nicknames: Rice, C Cube. 笨笨, Sunny Boy
D.O.B: 20/11/91
Horoscope: Scorpio
SJK(C) Pandan 1999-2002
HKPS 2003-2006
CCKSS 2007-2009
Ngee Ann Polytechnic
Nationality: Singapore Citizenship
Religion: Buddhist
Favourite country: Japan CCA: Band; trombonist
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The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

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Quality Time:		10
Acts of Service:		6
Physical Touch:		5
Words of Affirmation:		5
Receiving Gifts:		4

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cyclin'
Havin' fun outin' wid frens
honeydew milk tea
listenin' to music
singin'
SooYoung!
doin' the things I enjoy doin'

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