'Love' is a complicated word whereby there isnt a clear way to define it. Everyone sees it, experiences it & feels different meaning of it, then forms their own definition of it. Therefore it can be both positive & negative.

I sympathise ppl hu defines it as a bad thing, this shows they have lost faith in it. Someone is getting hurt in a relationship, whose fault izit? Both party. The one hurting may only know what is lust, but not love. Such ppl gotta learn how to love before acting like they know it very well and end up destroying ppl's belief in love, and before anyone knows it, they have moved on to the next one, leaving the other to bleed in pain. The one hurt shud oso be blamed for trusting ppl too much and getting into a relationship too soon. IMO there is no rush for a relationship, most importantly is finding the right person.

We dun live to love, we all can still survive without love because forcing yourself to find a partner will probably match urself with an unsuitable one. There are ppl hu cannot live without having someone to love and end up searching around for anyone to go steady with, their perspective of love is very wrong den. Love is supposed to be a come-naturally thing, not sth for ppl to play with or feel miserable about. 'love is just a game' is just bullshit. Sumtyms a r/s ended cuz of certain reasons which both parties agree, hence it is still acceptable as they both realise it & accept the fact tgt.But if itz someone hu suddenly walks out, den it's thei fault.

This is an advice to all the single frens, before gettin into a r/s, ask urself are u reali in love? Or izit only lust? Think far and ask urself agn, is he/she someone trustworthy & loyal u wanna spend ur whole life together with? & know how to love urself before lovin others.

I'm done with my definition of the word, it's just how I feel haha.

I dun wish to see anyone get hurt anymore.. :\

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The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

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Quality Time:		10
Acts of Service:		6
Physical Touch:		5
Words of Affirmation:		5
Receiving Gifts:		4

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Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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